"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Anything about a girl's past
- Thread starter zolo
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
squirrels
Master Don Juan
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Wouldn't stop me from banging her though.
spitkicker
Don Juan
I agree, Daddy issues is a big nono
The preggo thing would turn me off too
It doesn't bother me, but many of my friends wont date a girl who has been with a black guy. Actually I think girls that have are freakeier as they are less inhibated about things considered taboo.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
sure, u can have sex with a girl who had issues before with rape or whatever, but you'll have to have serious trust and probably an LTR before she'll do it. she might get a bit too emotionally attached, so proceed with caution
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Long Criminal Record.
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
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F*cking, however is a different story. Unless she's a convicted murderer/arsonist/some other serious felony I think I'd go for it.
She ****ed like a pornstar, but I didn't want all of her issues in my life.
Silverback82
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.