"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

anyonw ever been given a land line as her number

whosthat

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2011
Messages
71
Reaction score
0
just called, no pick up ,then text , text comes back saying its a landline, most chicks have a cell, do you think this could just be a straight up fake num, or poss her only number? she didnt seem poor at all
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

thefonz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 14, 2004
Messages
1,143
Reaction score
13
Age
44
Location
Pittsburgh
Maybe or maybe not...how's that for an answer? By the information you're giving us that's all I have to say. And why do you care anyway?

Tangent: I remember when I first came to this site I remember landlines were the norm. If you read some of Anti-Dumps old stuff he says cellphones, pagers, or emails don't count. You must get her HOME phone number.

My god how times have changed....
 

PapiChulo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2010
Messages
1,283
Reaction score
61
Location
Canada, eh?
Nah, bogus sh!t, fake number. It is the cell phone or nothing, unless the cell is broken, then ask for both. I no longer pick up the land line at all, thinking of canceling it all together. Sometimes they give you numbers of their friends and then laugh real hard, or don't pick up and bounce your text with something like "who is that?". That's for completely random approaches.
 

Desdinova

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2004
Messages
11,681
Reaction score
4,879
Believe it or not, the occasional woman doesn't have a cell phone. If you got a phone number and it works, count it as interest on her part and leave a message if she's got an answering machine.

I'm also from the era of the land line. Personally, I find I have much higher success rates with text messaging than I did with phone calls and answering machines.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top