"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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anyonw ever been given a land line as her number

whosthat

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just called, no pick up ,then text , text comes back saying its a landline, most chicks have a cell, do you think this could just be a straight up fake num, or poss her only number? she didnt seem poor at all
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thefonz

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Maybe or maybe not...how's that for an answer? By the information you're giving us that's all I have to say. And why do you care anyway?

Tangent: I remember when I first came to this site I remember landlines were the norm. If you read some of Anti-Dumps old stuff he says cellphones, pagers, or emails don't count. You must get her HOME phone number.

My god how times have changed....
 

PapiChulo

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Nah, bogus sh!t, fake number. It is the cell phone or nothing, unless the cell is broken, then ask for both. I no longer pick up the land line at all, thinking of canceling it all together. Sometimes they give you numbers of their friends and then laugh real hard, or don't pick up and bounce your text with something like "who is that?". That's for completely random approaches.
 

Desdinova

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Believe it or not, the occasional woman doesn't have a cell phone. If you got a phone number and it works, count it as interest on her part and leave a message if she's got an answering machine.

I'm also from the era of the land line. Personally, I find I have much higher success rates with text messaging than I did with phone calls and answering machines.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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