"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anyone with insomnia?

Chi Town

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I have maintenance insomnia, I can go to sleep perfectly fine but only for 3-4 hours then I can't go back to sleep, or I wake up extremely early or wake up every hour on the hour.

Any remedies to help with this?

I'm not depressed, I'm not stressed out or anything.

The sh!t just came out of nowhere for absolutely no reason and it's driving me crazy lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Last year's thread.

Has it remained the same since then ?

If so get it checked out man.

One of my managers would doze off during meetings and when I confronted him about it, he related the same experience.

Had him admitted for some testing and found out he has sleep apnea.

He can't breathe properly when asleep and that's fvcking with his health - big time, swollen heart etc.
 

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How's your diet and exercise routine?

I have issues with staying asleep when in a caloric deficit or doing low carb. Also if my training frequency/intensity is too high and i'm starting to get burnt out.
 

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I have really bad insomnia... I have tried everything I was recommended by insomnia brothers: the warm milk before bedtime, sleep sounds/music, varying my bedtime, taking and not taking naps during the day. Nothing seems to work. I even have made an appointment with my doc, and maybe he'll put me on some sleeping pills. I read some info on sleeping aid on online pharmacy website, but I won't take any pills before consulting a doctor
 

Chi Town

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I have really bad insomnia... I have tried everything I was recommended by insomnia brothers: the warm milk before bedtime, sleep sounds/music, varying my bedtime, taking and not taking naps during the day. Nothing seems to work. I even have made an appointment with my doc, and maybe he'll put me on some sleeping pills. I read some info on sleeping aid on online pharmacy website, but I won't take any pills before consulting a doctor
Honestly, nothing will work, it kinda just goes away on its own, my sleep has gotten better since I made this post, I still wake up feeling tired even though I'm finally getting 7-8 hours of sleep......just as random as it came, it left.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chi Town

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How's your diet and exercise routine?

I have issues with staying asleep when in a caloric deficit or doing low carb. Also if my training frequency/intensity is too high and i'm starting to get burnt out.
I don't really eat healthy honestly, that can be a factor, my sleep has gotten better though, I just randomly started sleeping better, I hope it doesn't come back
 

Chi Town

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Last year's thread.

Has it remained the same since then ?

If so get it checked out man.

One of my managers would doze off during meetings and when I confronted him about it, he related the same experience.

Had him admitted for some testing and found out he has sleep apnea.

He can't breathe properly when asleep and that's fvcking with his health - big time, swollen heart etc.
My sleep has gotten better spaz, thanks for the advice.
 

glass half full

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Benadryl can be helpful, give it an hour or so.

CBD oil helps a lot too. Sometimes an extra dose does the trick when sleep is stubborn.
 
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