"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone wanna start a DJ Boot Camp with me?

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Just finished my first year at Uni, quite pleased with the woman i pulled but want to improve for my second year. I figure i've got enough time on my hands now to start a boot camp, would really appreciate anyone wanting to join me to add that bit of motivation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Absolutely.

Me and my gf broke up recently, and gettting my ass back into gear is a great way to get me back to game mode.

Let's start and keep records of our exercises for each week, as well as some reflection of the articles and ideas presented.
 

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I focused on making conversation w/ a lot of different people.

Besides talking to various people, including guys who were strangers, I also approached and spoke to three girls.

The first was a classmate of mine who I never spoke to but happened to see her in the library. I made small talk, used eye contact, and introduced myself. Next time I speak with her, I will get her number. The second was a girl I saw while waiting at the bus stop. Although I tried to bring up some small talk, she wasn't very receptive, and I didn't actually end up getting too far with her. The last girl was a hot older women probably around 24 (I'm 18) who I started talking with on the bus. By using eye contact and trying to develop a good conversation, she ended up asking for my number, and I then told her to give her mine. I then told her maybe we'll get together sometime, and got off at my stop.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Raoul Duke
cool, when do you wanna start?
Man, let's start right now. From now on, when we see an opportunity, we will take it, and the advice given by the articles will help us succeed.
 
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