"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone wanna start a DJ Boot Camp with me?

Raoul Duke

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Just finished my first year at Uni, quite pleased with the woman i pulled but want to improve for my second year. I figure i've got enough time on my hands now to start a boot camp, would really appreciate anyone wanting to join me to add that bit of motivation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Absolutely.

Me and my gf broke up recently, and gettting my ass back into gear is a great way to get me back to game mode.

Let's start and keep records of our exercises for each week, as well as some reflection of the articles and ideas presented.
 

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I focused on making conversation w/ a lot of different people.

Besides talking to various people, including guys who were strangers, I also approached and spoke to three girls.

The first was a classmate of mine who I never spoke to but happened to see her in the library. I made small talk, used eye contact, and introduced myself. Next time I speak with her, I will get her number. The second was a girl I saw while waiting at the bus stop. Although I tried to bring up some small talk, she wasn't very receptive, and I didn't actually end up getting too far with her. The last girl was a hot older women probably around 24 (I'm 18) who I started talking with on the bus. By using eye contact and trying to develop a good conversation, she ended up asking for my number, and I then told her to give her mine. I then told her maybe we'll get together sometime, and got off at my stop.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Raoul Duke
cool, when do you wanna start?
Man, let's start right now. From now on, when we see an opportunity, we will take it, and the advice given by the articles will help us succeed.
 
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