You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah, in a Hollywood that became hellbent on being "safe" and "non-problematic" in the wake of MeToo, this crap APPEARED revolutionaryThis show is living proof sex sells!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You can relate?I watched the first three episodes. The lack of control and the drug use was really triggering, so I stopped watching it.
Never saw it but sounds like If I want to see that, I'd either do a "search" for "something," or just text the ladies from my hometown. Their kids are probably up to the same $hit.I found the show morbid, depressing, and grimy. I also felt sad with the parents dealing with their children’s drug use, overdoses, and the negative influence on the sister who looks up to her. Let’s just say the opportunity cost of doing something else with my time instead of watching these hour long episodes is pretty high.