You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, in a Hollywood that became hellbent on being "safe" and "non-problematic" in the wake of MeToo, this crap APPEARED revolutionaryThis show is living proof sex sells!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You can relate?I watched the first three episodes. The lack of control and the drug use was really triggering, so I stopped watching it.
Never saw it but sounds like If I want to see that, I'd either do a "search" for "something," or just text the ladies from my hometown. Their kids are probably up to the same $hit.I found the show morbid, depressing, and grimy. I also felt sad with the parents dealing with their children’s drug use, overdoses, and the negative influence on the sister who looks up to her. Let’s just say the opportunity cost of doing something else with my time instead of watching these hour long episodes is pretty high.