"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone trying to get a GF by 2/14?

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It's not a crucial goal but it's something that will keep me on my feet for this week.

I'm gonna up my approach.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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:rolleyes:


You're letting outside forces/dynamics control you. You're losing control again, you're being insecure, you're being AFC. Fvck Valentine's Day if you just happen to be single that time of year. It's not big deal. It's the WOMAN'S job to be insecure and chased by inner demons.




Ahem, so what I'm saying is, keeping going for girls, keep sarging, but don't do it coz V-Day is coming up.
 

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Eh relationships are dumb anyway. Most of us here are just looking for sex anyhow. :p

Speaking of which, I may get some before Valentine's Day. I don't need the emotional parts of having a GF.
 
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Dave - its a good time for approaches - girls seem extra receptive when Valentine's day is coming up, so take full advantage by all means :D

But you don't wanna jump into a relationship just because its nearly the 14th... Get yourself a hot date, and take it from there.

Personally, I've got a couple of tasty little numbers in my sights, decisions, decisions!!
 

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if u get a girl b4 valentines day u will have to buy her a present
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by 360
if u get a girl b4 valentines day u will have to buy her a present
I RESENT THAT!!!


NEVER!! unless she buys me something than I give her a good " evening"
 

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No.
 

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I was trying to about a week ago. Now it's like 5 days away and too close to even bother with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Caldus

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They're just as hard to find as any other day of the year. Finding a single girl who is hot at my college is a very very difficult task. And if they are, then they don't want to have anything to do with anyone in the classroom.
 

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Originally posted by david90
It's not a crucial goal but it's something that will keep me on my feet for this week.

I'm gonna up my approach.

It better not be a 'crucial' goal!!!!

How canb somethign as artificial and trivial and utter bullshyt as V-Day in any way motivate you to get a...a....man im about to barf!!

A Girlfriend!


Hell no! You're going to fvck on this special day my friend. No more, no less.

Now, more knockin boots, less lamenting.
 
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