"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone trying to get a GF by 2/14?

david90

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It's not a crucial goal but it's something that will keep me on my feet for this week.

I'm gonna up my approach.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You're letting outside forces/dynamics control you. You're losing control again, you're being insecure, you're being AFC. Fvck Valentine's Day if you just happen to be single that time of year. It's not big deal. It's the WOMAN'S job to be insecure and chased by inner demons.




Ahem, so what I'm saying is, keeping going for girls, keep sarging, but don't do it coz V-Day is coming up.
 

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Eh relationships are dumb anyway. Most of us here are just looking for sex anyhow. :p

Speaking of which, I may get some before Valentine's Day. I don't need the emotional parts of having a GF.
 
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Dave - its a good time for approaches - girls seem extra receptive when Valentine's day is coming up, so take full advantage by all means :D

But you don't wanna jump into a relationship just because its nearly the 14th... Get yourself a hot date, and take it from there.

Personally, I've got a couple of tasty little numbers in my sights, decisions, decisions!!
 

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if u get a girl b4 valentines day u will have to buy her a present
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by 360
if u get a girl b4 valentines day u will have to buy her a present
I RESENT THAT!!!


NEVER!! unless she buys me something than I give her a good " evening"
 

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No.
 

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I was trying to about a week ago. Now it's like 5 days away and too close to even bother with.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They're just as hard to find as any other day of the year. Finding a single girl who is hot at my college is a very very difficult task. And if they are, then they don't want to have anything to do with anyone in the classroom.
 

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Originally posted by david90
It's not a crucial goal but it's something that will keep me on my feet for this week.

I'm gonna up my approach.

It better not be a 'crucial' goal!!!!

How canb somethign as artificial and trivial and utter bullshyt as V-Day in any way motivate you to get a...a....man im about to barf!!

A Girlfriend!


Hell no! You're going to fvck on this special day my friend. No more, no less.

Now, more knockin boots, less lamenting.
 
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