"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Anyone trying to get a GF by 2/14?
- Thread starter david90
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jakethasnake
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You're letting outside forces/dynamics control you. You're losing control again, you're being insecure, you're being AFC. Fvck Valentine's Day if you just happen to be single that time of year. It's not big deal. It's the WOMAN'S job to be insecure and chased by inner demons.
Ahem, so what I'm saying is, keeping going for girls, keep sarging, but don't do it coz V-Day is coming up.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Speaking of which, I may get some before Valentine's Day. I don't need the emotional parts of having a GF.
sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
But you don't wanna jump into a relationship just because its nearly the 14th... Get yourself a hot date, and take it from there.
Personally, I've got a couple of tasty little numbers in my sights, decisions, decisions!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ser_i
Don Juan
I RESENT THAT!!!
NEVER!! unless she buys me something than I give her a good " evening"
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So Many Ways
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Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Is this true? Any tips?"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
It better not be a 'crucial' goal!!!!
How canb somethign as artificial and trivial and utter bullshyt as V-Day in any way motivate you to get a...a....man im about to barf!!
A Girlfriend!
Hell no! You're going to fvck on this special day my friend. No more, no less.
Now, more knockin boots, less lamenting.