"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone tried Electronic Cigarettes??

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what do you think? im doing some research on them on www.e-cigarette-forum.com

Thinking about getting the m401 because it seems like the best. According to the reviews...you have to change the atomizers and cartridges kinda often depending on how much you smoke or should i say "vaporize". A lot of people on that forum are saying that they love it....and of course its safer than smoking...

Anyone doing it or ever tried it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you want to quit, then quit. I read 'Alan Eason's easy way to quit smoking,' and I havent had so much as a DRAG since January. E-cigs will just cost you a lot of money. I admit, I used nicorrette when I wuit, but I learned that any form of cutting down, or weaning off, just makes you more addicted, because you crave the next fix even more. If you do it cold turkey, there is no more nicotine to think you are 'looking forward too.'

Read this book, and listen to an anti-smoking hypno CD every night,. and you will quit easier. These E cigs, will keep you addicted to the oral fixation. It makes sence to THINK that replacing, and cutting back will make it easier to quit, but that isnt how it works. It's cold turkey, or lung cancer, your choice.
 

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Hmm... I'm quite intrigued. Been looking for a way to quit without losing my mind. I can't access the forum here at work, (LOL But I can access this one????) so I'll have to wait until I get home to check it out. Thanks for posting it!! :)
 

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I'm recently trying to cut down on smoking. Basicly, I have this thing that will punch a hole in my cigarette butts. The holes make it so, I'm getting less smoke, chemicles and nicotine. After about a week I'll punch more holes and the cigarettes keep getting weaker and weaker. Then, I'm gonna try and cut down and how many I smoke a day...

This Electronic Cig is something new to me. So, I dont know sh!t about that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pLaYtHiNg said:
Hmm... I'm quite intrigued. Been looking for a way to quit without losing my mind. I can't access the forum here at work, (LOL But I can access this one????) so I'll have to wait until I get home to check it out. Thanks for posting it!! :)
pLaything, I know how you can quit!....














ready?...........











....Only smoke after having sex!!!!:up:

Desdinova, yes you are correct. I read that wrong.


BTW, IAFYB, that will not work. Its a nice thought, theoretically, but cutting down, actually makes you more addicted. You'll just torture yourself for a longer period of time, and chances are, you'll end up smoking again soon. Cold turkey is the way to go. Last year, I quit for several months, but I made the mistake of thinking it was OK to have ONE drag of somoenes smoke when I was at the bar. Little did I know, that I was keeping my addiction alive, by doing that. Think of it as a little monster inside you, that lives on nicotine. If you feed it less, it just throws more temper tantrums, but stays alive in your system. If you go cold turkey, it throws the same temper tantrums, but gradually gets weaker, and then dies. It takes about three weeks to kill the addiction. Cutting down, or weaning off, does not kill the monster, it just pisses it off!
 
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horaholic said:
pLaything, I know how you can quit!....














ready?...........











....Only smoke after having sex!!!!:up:

Desdinova, yes you are correct. I read that wrong.


BTW, IAFYB, that will not work. Its a nice thought, theoretically, but cutting down, actually makes you more addicted. You'll just torture yourself for a longer period of time, and chances are, you'll end up smoking again soon. Cold turkey is the way to go. Last year, I quit for several months, but I made the mistake of thinking it was OK to have ONE drag of somoenes smoke when I was at the bar. Little did I know, that I was keeping my addiction alive, by doing that. Think of it as a little monster inside you, that lives on nicotine. If you feed it less, it just throws more temper tantrums, but stays alive in your system. If you go cold turkey, it throws the same temper tantrums, but gradually gets weaker, and then dies. It takes about three weeks to kill the addiction. Cutting down, or weaning off, does not kill the monster, it just pisses it off!
It actually has been working for me. Though at first I did smoke more cause I wanted more nicotine. But, after getting use to less and less nicotine through out the few weeks. I havent been craving a cig as much. I'm also not smoking as many. My co-workers also came up and said they noticed I'm not smoking as much. So, its not just me thats notices it works for me.
 

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horaholic said:
pLaything, I know how you can quit!....














ready?...........











....Only smoke after having sex!!!!:up:
That shouldn't make me horny, should it?? :D (Sorry my hormones are on overdrive lately... 2 much sex on the brain!!)
 

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pLaYtHiNg said:
That shouldn't make me horny, should it?? :D (Sorry my hormones are on overdrive lately... 2 much sex on the brain!!)
Ha! I knew you were a SLVT!:yes:


JK.
 

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LOL! Well I try! JK! :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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