IamtheAlphamale
Master Don Juan
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I could use a wingman. Anyone interested?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anyone to the west of Toronto?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
IamtheAlphamale
Master Don Juan
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Guelph. You should hit the reply button when you respond to people. Cause it quotes their text and it gives them a notification that you responded to them. Also the mail icon is private messages. So click that cause I messaged you.
BoomToTheMoonAlice
Senior Don Juan
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Ding, didn't expect to find anyone else in lesbian central. Should've went to homecoming, thirsty chicks were everywhere and there wasn't a masculine dude in sight. Felt bad for them actually.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Are you still gamin? I'm in waterloo, if you want to meet up.
9-3enthusiast
Senior Don Juan
I'm a few miles South of Toronto - though I suspect not the same Toronto near yourself. 
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