"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone thinking about getting a sigmoidoscopy instead of a colonoscopy?

MatureDJ

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I've had both, and the colonoscopy was much more of a PITA (pun NOT intended) than a sigmoidoscopy. And the evidence seems to say that the colonoscopy doesn't really help with survival rates. When my GI says it's time to get the C, I'm going to tell him I want the S.

 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BillyPilgrim

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Sigmoidoscopy exam:

A flexible sigmoidoscopy (sig-moi-DOS-kuh-pee) is an exam used to evaluate the lower part of the large intestine (colon). During a flexible sigmoidoscopy exam, a thin, flexible tube (sigmoidoscope) is inserted into the rectum
 

Cerwin Vega

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Sigmo was one of the most painful procedures I had underwent.

As its name suggests, it only evaluates the sigmoid colon. It's good for diagnosing ulcerative colitis, but not for colorectal cancer and Crohn's. I see no reason why should you prefer S over C.
 
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