That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You must be refering to plant source omega3s (Flax seed, walnut) which primarily alpha linolenic acid (ALA);ALA conversion is at best 10% to active omega3s by humans. Good to take, but fish oil is a superior omega3 source.spesmilitis said:Some sources say the conversion can be as low as 3%. I'll post em when I have the time to find em
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Interesting, great stuff. I have Carlson's cod liver oil cause of www.mercola.com so it's good to see you confirm that.Road Demon said:You must be refering to plant source omega3s (Flax seed, walnut) which primarily alpha linolenic acid (ALA);ALA conversion is at best 10% to active omega3s by humans. Good to take, but fish oil is a superior omega3 source.
Fish oil source EPA/DHA are directly utilized in by human biochemical pathways. It gets incorporated into the lipid portion of the plasma membranes of cells, so it takes some time to accumluate.
Solvay Omacor is a 90% EPA/DHA fish oil that is available by prescription. So yes, fish oil it is pharmcologically active substance.
http://www.omacorrx.com/
Make sure you take, a molecular distilled version of fish oil that is 3rd party purity tested, esp. if you are taking high doses. I cannot stress enough to get the good stuff that is tested. Buy cheap vitamen C, but NOT cheap fish oil.
I take 2 pills a day of Carlson Brand Fish oil, which is 50% EPA/DHA. Most pills are 30% EPA/DHA, so make sure you read the back of the bottle for dose. You are looking for how much EPA and DHA is present. I prefer the high potency Carlson to that gives 1000mg of actual EPA & DHA combined with only two 1000mg fish oil capsules. Their are other good companies out their like Nordic Naturals, Spectrum organics, MEG3 brand, etc...
It makes sense to me. I did the research.