You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You must be refering to plant source omega3s (Flax seed, walnut) which primarily alpha linolenic acid (ALA);ALA conversion is at best 10% to active omega3s by humans. Good to take, but fish oil is a superior omega3 source.spesmilitis said:Some sources say the conversion can be as low as 3%. I'll post em when I have the time to find em
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Interesting, great stuff. I have Carlson's cod liver oil cause of www.mercola.com so it's good to see you confirm that.Road Demon said:You must be refering to plant source omega3s (Flax seed, walnut) which primarily alpha linolenic acid (ALA);ALA conversion is at best 10% to active omega3s by humans. Good to take, but fish oil is a superior omega3 source.
Fish oil source EPA/DHA are directly utilized in by human biochemical pathways. It gets incorporated into the lipid portion of the plasma membranes of cells, so it takes some time to accumluate.
Solvay Omacor is a 90% EPA/DHA fish oil that is available by prescription. So yes, fish oil it is pharmcologically active substance.
http://www.omacorrx.com/
Make sure you take, a molecular distilled version of fish oil that is 3rd party purity tested, esp. if you are taking high doses. I cannot stress enough to get the good stuff that is tested. Buy cheap vitamen C, but NOT cheap fish oil.
I take 2 pills a day of Carlson Brand Fish oil, which is 50% EPA/DHA. Most pills are 30% EPA/DHA, so make sure you read the back of the bottle for dose. You are looking for how much EPA and DHA is present. I prefer the high potency Carlson to that gives 1000mg of actual EPA & DHA combined with only two 1000mg fish oil capsules. Their are other good companies out their like Nordic Naturals, Spectrum organics, MEG3 brand, etc...
It makes sense to me. I did the research.