"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone suffered tendonitis from lifting?

D_Master

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So basically here's my story. About a year ago now I started to get serious about working out and joined a gym which I am still a member of. In that year I have probly only taken about 2 weeks off from training and go 3-4 times a week.
Last week I began to get soreness in my arm so I had to cut my workout short and when i went back in on tues. this week i popped a couple of advil before going since I've had some soreness before a couple times over the past few months and it's always gone away. Well after working out this time it felt like someone was stabbing me in BOTH elbows and a buddy of mine, who's in med school, said it's tendonitis (tennis elbow) at least in my right arm with a slight case in m left as well.
I was wondering how long I can expect to be out for this sort of thing? I would assume it'll be 2-4 weeks at least since athletes that get it are usually put on the 15 day DL. Also any exercises that I could do while sitting this out? This is a blow since it's coming up on the summer beach season and finally now people have been saying how much I've bulked up and I was planning on really getting in shape over the next 2 months.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NickSCFC2000

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I developed pains from doing bar curls for my biceps, I'd get a shooting pain run down the outside of my forearm, it was so bad I couldn't even do as little as press a light switch.

Now I do hammer curls and keep the bars for my chest only.
 

shaunuk

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I developed pains from doing bar curls for my biceps, I'd get a shooting pain run down the outside of my forearm, it was so bad I couldn't even do as little as press a light switch.
Hm yeah, I've felt the same pain whilst curling. It feels like a sharp pain in my forearm, i.e. a sort of tightening feeling in my forearm. Know what I mean?

-shaun
 

spesmilitis

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Don't do curls. If you want big bi's, do weighted pull ups, rows, and deadlifts.

I've gotten tendenitis from bjj in my shoulder, what healed it was doing shoulder press and not overtraining in bjj.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Take some Ibuprofin and work through it. It will go away eventually.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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