"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think I am going to be a disciple of Naughty Ninja's pretty soon if I keep this up...

Seriously tho guys, post a profile on the following sites: POF, OKC and hotornot(all of them are completely free to send/receive messages), and do EXACTLY what he says.

Here is my profile:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=46153625

nothing even too great there, I am sure I could do a lot better job with it, but that is the whole point, to be honest...

With that profile, I have pulled 30+ numbers in under 3 weeks(more like 2 and a half). Might actually be close to 40 now, I had 3 more numbers in my inbox this morning, didn't do a count or anything yet. Got 8 yesterday, including 3 that took less than 30 minutes from start to finish conversing with the girls.

All the girls are 7+'s(in my eyes)...I only go for good looking ones. Some have kids and are single mom's. I don't care, I just want to fvck. Those are the thirstiest ones. Regardless of whatever their profile says, they are ALL thirsty.

The one thing I do that is different than what NN suggests is I send another msg or two before going for the number...I have found this almost never leads to a denial, whereas the original method worked maybe 40-50%...so far I'm probably 95% or so with getting the number with an additional msg or two...
EDIT: so far have gotten another 7 numbers today in less than an hours work total...can't beat the efficiency of it...

So far I have met about 5 chicks off there, 3 were SNL's on the first date, another one has been texting me non-stop asking me to come over so she can "cook dinner", and the other one is probably not going to go anywhere...but 4 out of 5 so far is pretty good....also have had 2 women email ME looking to simply set up a time where we can fvck. This does not include the other about 15 emails I have gotten from chicks that I have no interest in and never send them anythign back.

I literally have gotten more numbers than I can even deal with at this point. Have women texting/emailing me as to why I haven't talked to them in a week or so and did I lose interest in them...

Its a great problem to have, there is NO WAY you can feel desperate with having these may options, which is really the whole point. When you have no options, the few options you do have receive an inordinate amount of attention from you..kinda like a single baby plant that you spend all day trying to nurture and take care of only to end up stepping on it by mistake and killing it...now if you have a whole field of baby plants, you wouldn't have time to focus so much on just that one plant...and really wouldn't care much about what happened to it...

Bottom line is women are USED to dealing with lame guys. If you act cool, and non-lame, you will set yourself apart tremendously. One of the girls that was a SNL told me most of the guys she met from there would get mad at her and start calling her names because she wouldn't have sex with them on the first or second date. We just laughed about it and I started teasing her about being sexually repressed...after escalating the conversation and the kino an hour later we were back at her place and she was swallowing my sword.

So, the whole point of this is if you are desperate, you can to use this to become un-desperate, even if you use it simply to meet and fvck women. Trust me, they want to fvck...2 of the women I fvcked said it has been over 2 months since they had sex and it was at least a year since they had any type of good sex...well, before we met at least...they were really good looking too...in shape, pretty faces, nice bodies....both had kids(the one had 2 kids). I don't care, they were looking for something and I was happy to give it to them...
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Spot on

I second your posting. I was a little skeptical of online dating sites. But don't knock em till you try them.......the right way. My only issue with this is that if someone isn't already good at talking/picking up women, it will never work. That has to be conquered first, then online sites are like an additional platform for it.

Totally agree with this thread. Thanks for the great details!!
 

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This is excellent. Thanks for the report. I've been going through a nasty dry spell and need to break out. I've been on the fence about the whole online thing, but this motivates me to give it a shot.

That's your real age, right? I was thinking of fudging mine by a few years so I end up in more searches. Also noticed how short your profile is and the mirror pics. Obviously, that hasn't been a problem for you.
 

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Three said:
This is excellent. Thanks for the report. I've been going through a nasty dry spell and need to break out. I've been on the fence about the whole online thing, but this motivates me to give it a shot.

That's your real age, right? I was thinking of fudging mine by a few years so I end up in more searches. Also noticed how short your profile is and the mirror pics. Obviously, that hasn't been a problem for you.
Yes that is my real age...I get hit on when I'm out by 23 and 24 year olds quite a bit...most think I am in my late 20s or 30...being in good shape helps a lot...

Yeah some girls say my pics are blurry but still give me their number anyway, lol...

Must be the diesel shirt I got on...hahaha
 

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My experience of POF has been there are a ton of biggin's. Maybe it's my area, but I do live in Philadelphia so it's a pretty big city. OKC seems a little better but getting a email back on that thing is rough, other than biggin's once again sending me messages.

But I am always hearing these success stories of dudes pulling in tons of chicks. I just keep adjusting the pics and profile and will see what happens.

What kind of messages do you send these chicks?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Read NaughtyNinja's POF number grabs post and follow it exactly
 

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You've inspired me to put up a POF again and this time I did a little experiment. I put up a goofy picture of myself and I'm getting a lot of messages from women saying "I like that picture, it's scary!" or "damn, that's a cool picture"

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=46359663

I put it up yesterday and I already got 6 messages saying they love the pic and that I'm funny. Only two were kind of hot, but the point is that it's actually working the way I thought it would!
 

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I've actually gotten a girl who wants a fvck buddy relationship with me...probably a good 7.5 or 8(she messaged me)...then I got 3 8s and 2 8.5s-9s I am putting in rotation at this time...the others are gonna have to wait for openings...I've only got so much d!ck to go around, lol
 

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marmel75 said:
I think I am going to be a disciple of Naughty Ninja's pretty soon if I keep this up...

Seriously tho guys, post a profile on the following sites: POF, OKC and hotornot(all of them are completely free to send/receive messages), and do EXACTLY what he says.

Here is my profile:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=46153625

nothing even too great there, I am sure I could do a lot better job with it, but that is the whole point, to be honest...

With that profile, I have pulled 30+ numbers in under 3 weeks(more like 2 and a half). Might actually be close to 40 now, I had 3 more numbers in my inbox this morning, didn't do a count or anything yet. Got 8 yesterday, including 3 that took less than 30 minutes from start to finish conversing with the girls.

All the girls are 7+'s(in my eyes)...I only go for good looking ones. Some have kids and are single mom's. I don't care, I just want to fvck. Those are the thirstiest ones. Regardless of whatever their profile says, they are ALL thirsty.

The one thing I do that is different than what NN suggests is I send another msg or two before going for the number...I have found this almost never leads to a denial, whereas the original method worked maybe 40-50%...so far I'm probably 95% or so with getting the number with an additional msg or two...
EDIT: so far have gotten another 7 numbers today in less than an hours work total...can't beat the efficiency of it...

So far I have met about 5 chicks off there, 3 were SNL's on the first date, another one has been texting me non-stop asking me to come over so she can "cook dinner", and the other one is probably not going to go anywhere...but 4 out of 5 so far is pretty good....also have had 2 women email ME looking to simply set up a time where we can fvck. This does not include the other about 15 emails I have gotten from chicks that I have no interest in and never send them anythign back.

I literally have gotten more numbers than I can even deal with at this point. Have women texting/emailing me as to why I haven't talked to them in a week or so and did I lose interest in them...

Its a great problem to have, there is NO WAY you can feel desperate with having these may options, which is really the whole point. When you have no options, the few options you do have receive an inordinate amount of attention from you..kinda like a single baby plant that you spend all day trying to nurture and take care of only to end up stepping on it by mistake and killing it...now if you have a whole field of baby plants, you wouldn't have time to focus so much on just that one plant...and really wouldn't care much about what happened to it...

Bottom line is women are USED to dealing with lame guys. If you act cool, and non-lame, you will set yourself apart tremendously. One of the girls that was a SNL told me most of the guys she met from there would get mad at her and start calling her names because she wouldn't have sex with them on the first or second date. We just laughed about it and I started teasing her about being sexually repressed...after escalating the conversation and the kino an hour later we were back at her place and she was swallowing my sword.

So, the whole point of this is if you are desperate, you can to use this to become un-desperate, even if you use it simply to meet and fvck women. Trust me, they want to fvck...2 of the women I fvcked said it has been over 2 months since they had sex and it was at least a year since they had any type of good sex...well, before we met at least...they were really good looking too...in shape, pretty faces, nice bodies....both had kids(the one had 2 kids). I don't care, they were looking for something and I was happy to give it to them...
You have a nice body. That's 50% of the battle online. Another 40% is a good face and 10% is everything else (game, profile, etc).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thebiggestpimpever said:
^just by putting the same profile description he did?

I don't use his profile script actually...but I do follow the guideline...I definitely 100% send his opening email message...awesome responses from it...

Matt
 

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XMinister said:
You've inspired me to put up a POF again and this time I did a little experiment. I put up a goofy picture of myself and I'm getting a lot of messages from women saying "I like that picture, it's scary!" or "damn, that's a cool picture"

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=46359663

I put it up yesterday and I already got 6 messages saying they love the pic and that I'm funny. Only two were kind of hot, but the point is that it's actually working the way I thought it would!
your traps are NOT big enough to pull off bane :p
 

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marmel75 said:
I think I am going to be a disciple of Naughty Ninja's pretty soon if I keep this up...

Seriously tho guys, post a profile on the following sites: POF, OKC and hotornot(all of them are completely free to send/receive messages), and do EXACTLY what he says.

Here is my profile:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=46153625

nothing even too great there, I am sure I could do a lot better job with it, but that is the whole point, to be honest...

With that profile, I have pulled 30+ numbers in under 3 weeks(more like 2 and a half). Might actually be close to 40 now, I had 3 more numbers in my inbox this morning, didn't do a count or anything yet. Got 8 yesterday, including 3 that took less than 30 minutes from start to finish conversing with the girls.

All the girls are 7+'s(in my eyes)...I only go for good looking ones. Some have kids and are single mom's. I don't care, I just want to fvck. Those are the thirstiest ones. Regardless of whatever their profile says, they are ALL thirsty.

The one thing I do that is different than what NN suggests is I send another msg or two before going for the number...I have found this almost never leads to a denial, whereas the original method worked maybe 40-50%...so far I'm probably 95% or so with getting the number with an additional msg or two...
EDIT: so far have gotten another 7 numbers today in less than an hours work total...can't beat the efficiency of it...

So far I have met about 5 chicks off there, 3 were SNL's on the first date, another one has been texting me non-stop asking me to come over so she can "cook dinner", and the other one is probably not going to go anywhere...but 4 out of 5 so far is pretty good....also have had 2 women email ME looking to simply set up a time where we can fvck. This does not include the other about 15 emails I have gotten from chicks that I have no interest in and never send them anythign back.

I literally have gotten more numbers than I can even deal with at this point. Have women texting/emailing me as to why I haven't talked to them in a week or so and did I lose interest in them...

Its a great problem to have, there is NO WAY you can feel desperate with having these may options, which is really the whole point. When you have no options, the few options you do have receive an inordinate amount of attention from you..kinda like a single baby plant that you spend all day trying to nurture and take care of only to end up stepping on it by mistake and killing it...now if you have a whole field of baby plants, you wouldn't have time to focus so much on just that one plant...and really wouldn't care much about what happened to it...

Bottom line is women are USED to dealing with lame guys. If you act cool, and non-lame, you will set yourself apart tremendously. One of the girls that was a SNL told me most of the guys she met from there would get mad at her and start calling her names because she wouldn't have sex with them on the first or second date. We just laughed about it and I started teasing her about being sexually repressed...after escalating the conversation and the kino an hour later we were back at her place and she was swallowing my sword.

So, the whole point of this is if you are desperate, you can to use this to become un-desperate, even if you use it simply to meet and fvck women. Trust me, they want to fvck...2 of the women I fvcked said it has been over 2 months since they had sex and it was at least a year since they had any type of good sex...well, before we met at least...they were really good looking too...in shape, pretty faces, nice bodies....both had kids(the one had 2 kids). I don't care, they were looking for something and I was happy to give it to them...

Nah I'm no "guru". Just your everyday idiot who likes breaking balls and figured out how to kill it on there. Sometimes I amaze myself! LMAO I was on there a while ago and was like there HAS to be a way to get these chicks to respond, then get their numbers quick. I made up several ridiculous first messages spammed them out and started getting replies out the wazoo, numbers galore. The amount of chicks I talked to on that site is STAGGERING. I knew from the get go EVERY ONE of those chicks were straight jump offs (though after they've ridden enough c0ck find some one who they think is the "one" and mostly hide their profile till the relationship ends and are right back on there.)

God only knows how many d1cks those chicks have seen. I meet enough everytime I work at my part time to have ever bothered meeting a chick off pof. Hell my part time is like a real life POF with much less damaged goods.

But it is a great way once you get your best looking pics, a good brief profile and the hang of what to spam and go for the number in 4 or 2 messages longer like you do meet and fvck them.

Dudes don't believe me but now that a bunch of you dudes are killing it on there...well. I told you so.

I'd NEVER wife up a chick on there as the next meast, Marmel, Incog, NN etc is right around the corner to dump a fresh load in those chicks. You simply cannot take anyone or anything on that site to heart and follow a process (make your own brief profile if need be or your own copy and paste first message to not double up chicks in the same area) and it becomes to the point where you simply cannot keep up with the replies or calling, answering all those whacky broads that infest that site like the plague.

True story! LOL
 

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XMinister said:
You've inspired me to put up a POF again and this time I did a little experiment. I put up a goofy picture of myself and I'm getting a lot of messages from women saying "I like that picture, it's scary!" or "damn, that's a cool picture"

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=46359663

I put it up yesterday and I already got 6 messages saying they love the pic and that I'm funny. Only two were kind of hot, but the point is that it's actually working the way I thought it would!
You can probably meet a few and bring the mask and pound them while wearing it. Most would probably go for it. Trust me play the game. those chicks are freaks.
 

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Haha, you guys are too good!!! I def don't have the Bane traps! I'm going to work on them from now on, haha.

POF is a fun ride when you have tricks to play around with. You get all kinds of messages and phone numbers.

Definitely no wife material on there at all!

Keep up the fun fellas!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What do u guys think...should I keep the main pic I got up now with the 3 girls or put the Diesel pic back as the main?

Matt
 

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marmel75 said:
Seriously tho guys, post a profile on the following sites: POF, OKC and hotornot(all of them are completely free to send/receive messages), and do EXACTLY what he says.
Aren't you married? Yet you put "actively seeking a relationship" in your profile. Is that just part of Ninja's design?
 

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Married guys need to get laid too.
 

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zekko said:
Aren't you married? Yet you put "actively seeking a relationship" in your profile. Is that just part of Ninja's design?

Yeah
 
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Looking at the title and view/reply ratio of this thread. We can change the site name to SoDesperado.net.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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