Anyone mastered having a quiet, confident, mysterious air?

[cola]

I've seen it but not too often.. I'm a people watcher and I've seen guys who were quiet.. not creepy quiet but quiet enough and exuded a silent confidence and had women all over them.. i'd be interested in adopting this as its closer to my personallity.. I hate loud obnoxious guys who talk loudly and boastfully.. its one of my pet peeves.. I think confidence should be observed not heard..

Anyone have a game like this? I know its a thin line between quiet/nysterious/confident and quiet/creepy/stalker .. input please thanks
-chris

 

[#41]

I don't have any kids nor do I have a fortune to leave, so the "heir" part is something I haven't mastered yet.

 

[saturos]

I think the word you want here is air, lol

 

[Desert Fox]

rofl heir...air

anyways yeah I am that guy. The guy who walks around and people don't know much about him FOR SURE. They know this and that a little here and there about me just hearing it through the grape vine...but few people are close to me and nobody has the balls to approach me and confirm.

Then bam, someone does and they confirm I am as great as they heard about. It's like I'm a fvckin legend.

How does this relate to women? It attracts the nerdy Tina Fey-esque women pretty well. And Christian closet freaks it attracts pretty well. I haven't had much success with many hot gals like busty blondes and more "Traditional" hotties like that with this medthod. I guess you gotta be ripped and more outgoing to pull those.

 

[cola]

My vernacular isn't doesn't have as much depth as id like and "air" just didn't sound right.. but after looking up both words the latter was indeed the correct word to use. . But anyways.. I just think its a better way to go than the loud annoying guy.. you know?

 

[Desert Fox]

My vernacular isn't doesn't have as much depth as id like and "air" just didn't sound right.. but after looking up both words the latter was indeed the correct word to use. . But anyways.. I just think its a better way to go than the loud annoying guy.. you know?

yea h I agree. I ****in hate those loud dbags that think they're the ****.

 

[sharkbeat]

Silent and confident men have their charm, but that is still not enough to get you laid. You still gotta do something, which these..loud obnoxious guys are very good at.

 

[Five To One]

Smile.
Laugh.
Let your friends do most of the talking.
Make your witty remark.
Eye contact with your target.
=quiet confidence and attraction

 

[cola]

Funny that you posted this. I was just thinking about this recently.

I get the "intimidating" and "scary" thing a lot, which I always find amusing because if you know me at all you know I'm the farthest thing from that.

I am an introvert, and I've accepted that I'm never going to be the fun party guy with a million friends (who he barely knows on an individual level), a thousand parties, etc. I don't even want to be that guy. I think it would be exhausting and get really boring quickly.

However, if I did want to be like that, and tried to be, wouldn't I just be living a lie? That's not who I really am. I will talk to people and be nice, but I'm not going to try to be something I'm not. And even if I tried, people would see right through the facade.

My point exactly.. and also I think way too highly of myself to be somewomans circus clown and entertain her (****y and funny) im a man she should be entertaining me!

 

[pua1989]

i am loud but far from annoying and a dbag......

 

[DonGorgon]

you have to be confident look good and have a nice smile and eyes for this to work... oh you cant be a complete loner you have to appear to know people but chose to walk solo..

 

[Darth]

Smile.
Laugh.
Let your friends do most of the talking.
Make your witty remark.
Eye contact with your target.
=quiet confidence and attraction

Yeah, that's how I am too. It's the "James Bond" idea. To pull it off it has to be who you are, though. I'm naturally quieter, more old school than other guys in how I talk, and I like flirting just for the fun of it. So, it works for me. But there's nothing worse than a guy who tries to act laid-back and stuff, who isn't built that way.

As cliche as it sounds, I think the best thing is to "be yourself."

 

[Badmannaz]

the silent strong guy..he's usually giving off they impression that he has a very cool life that your not apart of...and girls who approach him just want some of that lifestyle for themselves... it goes with the thought that all girls think that they are the hottest girl...so for the simple fact your not all over her makes her want you...

basically he looks like she cant have em...im one of those guys...

 

[Dante420]

the silent strong guy..he's usually giving off they impression that he has a very cool life that your not apart of...and girls who approach him just want some of that lifestyle for themselves... it goes with the thought that all girls think that they are the hottest girl...so for the simple fact your not all over her makes her want you...

basically he looks like she cant have em...im one of those guys...

Bingo!

Thought about it, quickly forgot about it. In the end it leaves you very lonely and your not going to meeting anybody and when you do you probably won't get to know them unless you just are 100% reliant on some really smooth kino.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Same here badmannaz. I'm that guy, but I can be loud when I have too. Like someone said earlier, I have a lot of friends, but i choose to walk solo a lot of times because I prefer my space to think about things. There's this one girl with a bf that everyone is all over, but because i limit my attention to her, she hits on me more than I hit on her. While you may think it's cool to be that guy, it really isn't, sometimes I wish i could be more like my friends, but I'm just not built that way

 

[cola]

i think that maybe you have to be very attractive for this to work .. and a combination aof a female who isnt shy

 

[oakraiderz2]

yea h I agree. I ****in hate those loud dbags that think they're the ****.

Funny how this is the case considering its how you act.