"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone making a list of goals for summer?

Aspiring_DJ

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I am going to make a list of goals that i want to meet by the end of summer. Tell me what you think of my goals and if you have any suggestions to add to them. The list isn't completed but the top goals are:

1. Go to the gym at least 3 times a week
2. Go to at least 5 parties.
3. Meet at least 10 new girls.
4. Sleep with at least 3 of them.
5. Work 40 hours a week.
6. Do something to benefit someone else like participate in a fundraiser or something.

That's all i could come up with for now.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have one very simple goal for this summer. Get rid of approach anxiety by October 1st, 2007.

Want to get to the point I can approach anyone I want easily and effortlessly. Anything further will be considered a bonus.
 

steves2kool

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anxiety

Couple years ago I forced myself to talk to this girl I had a crush on. After that embarrassing moment it was a lot easier to talk to almost anyone. I think it gets easier after the first one. So good luck with your goals and just that first one over with....
 
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