"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone making a list of goals for summer?

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I am going to make a list of goals that i want to meet by the end of summer. Tell me what you think of my goals and if you have any suggestions to add to them. The list isn't completed but the top goals are:

1. Go to the gym at least 3 times a week
2. Go to at least 5 parties.
3. Meet at least 10 new girls.
4. Sleep with at least 3 of them.
5. Work 40 hours a week.
6. Do something to benefit someone else like participate in a fundraiser or something.

That's all i could come up with for now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have one very simple goal for this summer. Get rid of approach anxiety by October 1st, 2007.

Want to get to the point I can approach anyone I want easily and effortlessly. Anything further will be considered a bonus.
 
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Couple years ago I forced myself to talk to this girl I had a crush on. After that embarrassing moment it was a lot easier to talk to almost anyone. I think it gets easier after the first one. So good luck with your goals and just that first one over with....
 
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