"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyone looks taller or shorter than they really are?

warrior1

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Whether it's your guy friends or woman friends, do any of you look shorter or taller than you really are? I'm 21 and am 5'8 barefoot but thought i was 5'9 until the doctor measured me a few years ago. The thing is I have this sort of spikey -afro type hair that makes me look taller.

I have some friends that are around 5'8 but i look taller than them b/c my height is sort of tricky. When i wear shoes, I am 5'9 and my hair adds probably another 2 inches. However, when i get a haircut, I look like i SHRUNK and look real short. That's why i always keep my spike-mini afro going.

Is it me or am i so bothered by the 5'8 height? I just want to be 5'9 since that is average and 5'8 sounds like OH so close if you get what i mean.

I also see a lot of woman who say they prefer a guy to be AT LEAST 5'9. Does 5'8 and 5'9 mean that big of a difference to woman especially those shallow ones?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Moofahsa

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I am always answering these height questions it feels like.

Don't worry about your height. 5-7" 5-8" 5-9" doesn't matter all that much unless that extra inch is on your wang.

Hell when I got my drivers license it reads 6'11" (which I'm not) and when I got my mug shots it said I was 6'9" (which I am)

Don't stress about a few inches, I've missed out on a lot of hottie short chicks cause I'm an oaf...so get out their and get'em

EDIT:

We are NEVER satisfied with our genetics. I envyed a guy (I'm no queer LOL) that was 6'1" and had arms as big around as telephone poles...I'm extremely lanky...he tells me flat out in the gym "Man I'd kill to be you, your tall and everyone respects you"

Hell I'd rather be like him and be benching 450lbs.

Doesn't matter what our genetics are, we are never satisfied.
 

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Wow your tall then. I have another question though it is going to be very broad. What would be the idea height for a male and female? I heard male being 3-6 inches taller is best whereas one person said 6 inches.
 

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im 6'0 and some people say I dont look that tall, so I ask them and they say cause I have a young face. WTF.
 

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warrior1 said:
What would be the idea height for a male and female? I heard male being 3-6 inches taller is best whereas one person said 6 inches.
if you are 3 inch taller they can wear 4inch heels and still be the same height as you, so 3+ is desirable
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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