"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone looks taller or shorter than they really are?

warrior1

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Whether it's your guy friends or woman friends, do any of you look shorter or taller than you really are? I'm 21 and am 5'8 barefoot but thought i was 5'9 until the doctor measured me a few years ago. The thing is I have this sort of spikey -afro type hair that makes me look taller.

I have some friends that are around 5'8 but i look taller than them b/c my height is sort of tricky. When i wear shoes, I am 5'9 and my hair adds probably another 2 inches. However, when i get a haircut, I look like i SHRUNK and look real short. That's why i always keep my spike-mini afro going.

Is it me or am i so bothered by the 5'8 height? I just want to be 5'9 since that is average and 5'8 sounds like OH so close if you get what i mean.

I also see a lot of woman who say they prefer a guy to be AT LEAST 5'9. Does 5'8 and 5'9 mean that big of a difference to woman especially those shallow ones?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Moofahsa

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I am always answering these height questions it feels like.

Don't worry about your height. 5-7" 5-8" 5-9" doesn't matter all that much unless that extra inch is on your wang.

Hell when I got my drivers license it reads 6'11" (which I'm not) and when I got my mug shots it said I was 6'9" (which I am)

Don't stress about a few inches, I've missed out on a lot of hottie short chicks cause I'm an oaf...so get out their and get'em

EDIT:

We are NEVER satisfied with our genetics. I envyed a guy (I'm no queer LOL) that was 6'1" and had arms as big around as telephone poles...I'm extremely lanky...he tells me flat out in the gym "Man I'd kill to be you, your tall and everyone respects you"

Hell I'd rather be like him and be benching 450lbs.

Doesn't matter what our genetics are, we are never satisfied.
 

warrior1

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Wow your tall then. I have another question though it is going to be very broad. What would be the idea height for a male and female? I heard male being 3-6 inches taller is best whereas one person said 6 inches.
 

killbill

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im 6'0 and some people say I dont look that tall, so I ask them and they say cause I have a young face. WTF.
 

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warrior1 said:
What would be the idea height for a male and female? I heard male being 3-6 inches taller is best whereas one person said 6 inches.
if you are 3 inch taller they can wear 4inch heels and still be the same height as you, so 3+ is desirable
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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