oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Im thinking about moving down there during the summer and im looking at apartments but i just wanna know what areas to stay away from and what areas are kinda nice. So if anyone can help...high 5.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thanks dude. I was down in Clearwater last year and it seemed like a nice place. Any areas there you suggest to stay away from? Do you know anything about Tampa? I know its huge but id prefer to live there if i can find a decent place.Bible_Belt said:Generally, the closer to the water, the nicer the place. The streets are numbered, and they start in the middle of town. So 1st ave North and 1st ave South are both ghetto. Downtown and the area near Tropicana Field are a big crack ghetto. Think bars on windows and a Title Loan place and pawn shop on every corner.
There are plenty of nice places, though. If you are going to get an apartment, I would get one within walking distance of St. Pete or Clearwater Beach, and then you will always have a constant supply of new female tourists. The "club scene" is across the bay in Ybor City. I prefer 2nd floor apartments, because the likelihood of Tropical storm/flood/hurricane damage is smaller.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most likely the Ruby Tuesday in Citrus Park. Most of the apartments i was looking at were around Waters and Dale Mabry, some were south of Waters. Im probably gonna go to school at hcc so im trying to find a place relativly close to there also.RedPill said:Anywhere off Dale Mabry north of Waters is decent. Just like Bible_Belt says, it gets more suburban the farther north you go. The traffic though on Dale Mabry is horrendous if you use it to get into town. Do you know where you're going to work?