oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Im thinking about moving down there during the summer and im looking at apartments but i just wanna know what areas to stay away from and what areas are kinda nice. So if anyone can help...high 5.
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You've been "getting ready" for two years.
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Thanks dude. I was down in Clearwater last year and it seemed like a nice place. Any areas there you suggest to stay away from? Do you know anything about Tampa? I know its huge but id prefer to live there if i can find a decent place.Bible_Belt said:Generally, the closer to the water, the nicer the place. The streets are numbered, and they start in the middle of town. So 1st ave North and 1st ave South are both ghetto. Downtown and the area near Tropicana Field are a big crack ghetto. Think bars on windows and a Title Loan place and pawn shop on every corner.
There are plenty of nice places, though. If you are going to get an apartment, I would get one within walking distance of St. Pete or Clearwater Beach, and then you will always have a constant supply of new female tourists. The "club scene" is across the bay in Ybor City. I prefer 2nd floor apartments, because the likelihood of Tropical storm/flood/hurricane damage is smaller.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Most likely the Ruby Tuesday in Citrus Park. Most of the apartments i was looking at were around Waters and Dale Mabry, some were south of Waters. Im probably gonna go to school at hcc so im trying to find a place relativly close to there also.RedPill said:Anywhere off Dale Mabry north of Waters is decent. Just like Bible_Belt says, it gets more suburban the farther north you go. The traffic though on Dale Mabry is horrendous if you use it to get into town. Do you know where you're going to work?