oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Im thinking about moving down there during the summer and im looking at apartments but i just wanna know what areas to stay away from and what areas are kinda nice. So if anyone can help...high 5.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thanks dude. I was down in Clearwater last year and it seemed like a nice place. Any areas there you suggest to stay away from? Do you know anything about Tampa? I know its huge but id prefer to live there if i can find a decent place.Bible_Belt said:Generally, the closer to the water, the nicer the place. The streets are numbered, and they start in the middle of town. So 1st ave North and 1st ave South are both ghetto. Downtown and the area near Tropicana Field are a big crack ghetto. Think bars on windows and a Title Loan place and pawn shop on every corner.
There are plenty of nice places, though. If you are going to get an apartment, I would get one within walking distance of St. Pete or Clearwater Beach, and then you will always have a constant supply of new female tourists. The "club scene" is across the bay in Ybor City. I prefer 2nd floor apartments, because the likelihood of Tropical storm/flood/hurricane damage is smaller.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most likely the Ruby Tuesday in Citrus Park. Most of the apartments i was looking at were around Waters and Dale Mabry, some were south of Waters. Im probably gonna go to school at hcc so im trying to find a place relativly close to there also.RedPill said:Anywhere off Dale Mabry north of Waters is decent. Just like Bible_Belt says, it gets more suburban the farther north you go. The traffic though on Dale Mabry is horrendous if you use it to get into town. Do you know where you're going to work?