"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone live in a big unfriendly city that you weren't born in? How do get on?

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I'm in a city, it has a reputation for being unfriendly, and I wasn't born here. Sort of alone a lot of the time.

I've realised I sort of need community in my life. Gets lonely, and one day merges into the next without much happening.

Any other guys out there in same boat and what do you do about it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Join an activity club. Do you have a meet up groups in your city? It's an app that has many different group activities.
 
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You have to get after it. Big cities won't do the work for you. There are plenty of events and groups for you to join. I moved from a small city to the largest Metro in the United States. You have to take life into your own hands.
 
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