"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone live in a big unfriendly city that you weren't born in? How do get on?

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I'm in a city, it has a reputation for being unfriendly, and I wasn't born here. Sort of alone a lot of the time.

I've realised I sort of need community in my life. Gets lonely, and one day merges into the next without much happening.

Any other guys out there in same boat and what do you do about it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Join an activity club. Do you have a meet up groups in your city? It's an app that has many different group activities.
 
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You have to get after it. Big cities won't do the work for you. There are plenty of events and groups for you to join. I moved from a small city to the largest Metro in the United States. You have to take life into your own hands.
 
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