"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anyone know what happened here?

King Turi

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I'll keep it short.

Basically, knew this girl for a bit, never got to know her, anyway, she asks me for my number when I see her out a couple days ago and she texts me later in the night telling me she likes me.

So we chill out the next day and everythings sweet.

Then later that night I get the whole don't wanna hurt you thing, and I have no idea how that happened since everything was cool.

I don't even have a crush or anything on her, cuz I haven't known her for too long.

I just don't get what happened like how could interest level drop so fast like that?
When everything was cool, like no awkward moments or anything the whole time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women change their mind all the time. Could be many things: stars in the sky not aligning correctly, she slept on the wrong side of the bed that day, she stepped on poop on her way to your place.

Unless there is a pattern with several girls, don't over analyze this. Better move on with other potentials.
 

King Turi

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Yeah I know, I'm not stagnating on it, as I said I don't have a crush on her or anything.

That's why I don't get why she dropped the "I don't wanna hurt you" thing.. that's something you drop on someone who's been trying to get with you for like months and you're trying to let 'em down gently.

Not somethin' you'd drop on someone you hung out with one time.
 
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you're over-analyzing, the point is she's not interested in YOU. It seems to me you're pretty interested in her, seein' as how you made this thread and all....so maybe you came across a little desperate too early and tripped her out.... might be a possibility.
 

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Basically, knew this girl for a bit, never got to know her, anyway, she asks me for my number when I see her out a couple days ago and she texts me later in the night telling me she likes me
Notice the red? Most the girls who ask YOU for YOUR number are fvking nuts in someway... Obviosly she has to be desperate and have no self worth to ask you out..Unless your johnny depp..

you're over-analyzing, the point is she's not interested in YOU. It seems to me you're pretty interested in her, seein' as how you made this thread and all....so maybe you came across a little desperate too early and tripped her out.... might be a possibility.
Very likely.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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King Turi

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Nah, I don't have a crush on her.

I just want to know what happened for future reference.
 

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King Turi said:
Nah, I don't have a crush on her.

I just want to know what happened for future reference.
she liked you BUT as you didnt reciprocate the feelings (i.e. you didnt do anything as you didnt really like her)

she was just rejecting you, before you could reject her... it saves her ego ...also its probably on a subconcious level rather than a thought out plan by her
 

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I think you could actually be right man.

She has still brought up kissing and stuff since the whole doesn't wanna hurt me thing, so no idea what's going on there.
 
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