"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone interested in forming some kind of book club on here?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Maybe talking about books we all love (art of war,the art of seduction etc).
I think it's legal to share pdf, the rule is that the sender is to delete the file while the receiver reads, and then they send it back after and delete it. sounds complicated but that the way to explain the mechanics. Like a real library.
 

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I think it's legal to share pdf, the rule is that the sender is to delete the file while the receiver reads, and then they send it back after and delete it. sounds complicated but that the way to explain the mechanics. Like a real library.
didnt know thats the way it works
 

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I'm in.

Influential books/authors I read often:
Tao Te Ching
Jung
Nietzsche


I have yet to read marcus aurelius but that is coming up next
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Count me in. I'm currently reading: No more mister nice guy, does anyone want to discuss it or any other books?
 
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Influential books/authors I read often:
Tao Te Ching
Jung
Nietzsche


I have yet to read marcus aurelius but that is coming up next
hmm Nietzsche his books are kinda depressing. I think you should read some books refuting his moral nihilism views too
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmm Nietzsche his books are kinda depressing. I think you should read some books refuting his moral nihilism views too
Nietzsche isn't a nihilist imo, he warns against what nihilism will lead to, which is modern society. But I'm not a nihilist in any case.
 
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Nietzsche isn't a nihilist imo, he warns against what nihilism will lead to, which is modern society. But I'm not a nihilist in any case.
hmm you should try ibn taymiyyah, al ghazzali, ibn rushd etc. on youtube I would suggest "pondering soul" and "andalusian project" channels
 

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trying to make it to a point where we can make a whatsapp meeetup or zoom meeting:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, start a "What are you currently reading" thread or something

I read a little bit every day before retiring to bed
 

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Deep Work by Cal Newport. More of a self-improvement type book.

It’s about the importance and power of deeply focused “in the zone” work and improving that skill despite living in the age of distractions and short attention spans.
 

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I'm reading outliers. It's a book on what distinguishes high achievers compared to the average person.

I'm also reading feeling is the secret by Neville. It's a self development type book
 

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I like this idea of a book club. I'm going to request it. Perhaps a subforum with one thread devoted to each book. No arguing allowed, all adversarial nonsense immediately deleted. Just sincere men who want to discuss the merits of good books.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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