"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone in here familiar with self-hypnosis?

thegamedontwait

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Hello. Is anybody in here familiar with self-hypnosis and knows how to use it in order to become more confident and overcome the fear of approaching women and maybe even overcoming my little problem that I posted about before (slight shaking of the neck when making eye contact)?
Ive read some articles and a pretty long book about it before, but didnt fully understand some parts and stopped it cause I was abou to graduate. I wanna take it up again and learn it properly to improve my life. If anyone is willing to help me please holla. Any help/advice is appreciated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The easiest starter book for hypnosis for anyone is the Complete Idiot's Guide to Hypnosis. I used it to self-induce a non-smoking habit on me that lasted 18 months. I kind of ****ed myself in that with the hypno-script I tied it to the approval of a then girlfriend. otherwise It would have still been in effect.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Look into Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP). It's easy to understand and some aspects can help you make personal adjustments almost immediately.
 

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I've already read a book about self-hypnosis (a pretty thick one) and I guess Im gonna read it again so I can start doing it properly, any other advice what I could do until Ive finished reading that book again? I read some article on here about just picturing stuff in your mind or something so it's easier to actually do it. Anybody tried this method and had good experiences with it?

maybe Im gonna buy that other book, though.

Does anybody know how effective hypnosis induced by a professional is? I once saw a report on TV and rather few hypnosis sessions with a professional made them drop the bad habit of stuttering. Is it really that effective? (I might even wanna consider this cause Im studying business administration, so being more outgoing and open to other people will be a great benefit for my career also.)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah that NLP tony robbins style is money.I've been using it to help my sports training as well as to stop choking in my DJing and it's been a massive help.
It is a skill tho and you do need to practice it to get better.
 

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If you want the power to change your abilities and behaviors almost instantly read "An Introduction to Neuro-Linguistic Programming : Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People" by Joseph O'Connor.

I bought this book junior year of highschool and it totally sky rocketed my life in so many ways.
 
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