"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Anyone here into the Import/Export biz?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Go to entrepreneur.com, they have information for any business you can think ofelite7 said:No goods
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hmm....sorry to rain on the party but that website doesn't quite pass the smell test for me. Look at some of the "organizations" that the group is in. They are a member of ICANN, which all that means is that they have a registered domain name...why is that something to brag about?elite7 said:Import/Export for dummies was pretty good from what I know u can start for less then 15,000 grand.Checkout www.globalservicesworldwide.com .Checking iut some youtube clips on the field but have not found anything yet.Any suggestions.
Import/Export is usually handled by banks. How it works for those that don't know is that a bank, or some other institution, acts as an intermediary in a transaction. Say a US company is trying to buy something from a Japanese company. The US company doesn't want to hand over it's money and never get any goods in return, and the Japanese company doesn't want to ship the goods but never receive payment. You can't just call the police if someone rips you off since it is over different jurisdictions. So, a mutually trusted institution like an international bank holds the payment and goods in escrow until both have been received, and then forward them both to the ultimate destination.
It's not always banks that act as the intermediary, and sometimes countries have a government agency that can do it, like in the United States: http://www.exim.gov/
Now you can probably make good money in selling exotic goods, but know what you're getting into and do your homework.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.