"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Anyone here into the Import/Export biz?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Go to entrepreneur.com, they have information for any business you can think ofelite7 said:No goods
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hmm....sorry to rain on the party but that website doesn't quite pass the smell test for me. Look at some of the "organizations" that the group is in. They are a member of ICANN, which all that means is that they have a registered domain name...why is that something to brag about?elite7 said:Import/Export for dummies was pretty good from what I know u can start for less then 15,000 grand.Checkout www.globalservicesworldwide.com .Checking iut some youtube clips on the field but have not found anything yet.Any suggestions.
Import/Export is usually handled by banks. How it works for those that don't know is that a bank, or some other institution, acts as an intermediary in a transaction. Say a US company is trying to buy something from a Japanese company. The US company doesn't want to hand over it's money and never get any goods in return, and the Japanese company doesn't want to ship the goods but never receive payment. You can't just call the police if someone rips you off since it is over different jurisdictions. So, a mutually trusted institution like an international bank holds the payment and goods in escrow until both have been received, and then forward them both to the ultimate destination.
It's not always banks that act as the intermediary, and sometimes countries have a government agency that can do it, like in the United States: http://www.exim.gov/
Now you can probably make good money in selling exotic goods, but know what you're getting into and do your homework.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.