"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone here going to miss lost here as much as I will:)

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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elite7 said:
Any comment on the shows finale:rockon:
No, this entire season has svcked, and the last show Tuesday? Terrible. Beyond terrible.
 

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I'm watching all the episodes now. Working on Season 4 now trying to catch up.
 

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cordoncordon said:
No, this entire season has svcked, and the last show Tuesday? Terrible. Beyond terrible.
The show about Richard was FANTASTIC. The last episode was pretty good as well. Everything should come full cirlce in the end. Besides, the producers of the show never intended it to last this long.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's a great series but it has run it's course. All good things must come to an end.

There are very few series on TV that I watch. It's basically Lost, Heroes, Burn Notice and Chuck. Heroes has been falling apart for a while and Chuck ended for me when Chuck and Sarah got together. At least Burn Notice is still really good and it's coming back in a couple of weeks.

I need some more good shows to watch. I hope some more air in the fall.

Oh yeah, Archer is great, definitely want more of that.
 
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