"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone here going to miss lost here as much as I will:)

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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elite7 said:
Any comment on the shows finale:rockon:
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No, this entire season has svcked, and the last show Tuesday? Terrible. Beyond terrible.
 
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I'm watching all the episodes now. Working on Season 4 now trying to catch up.
 
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cordoncordon said:
No, this entire season has svcked, and the last show Tuesday? Terrible. Beyond terrible.
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The show about Richard was FANTASTIC. The last episode was pretty good as well. Everything should come full cirlce in the end. Besides, the producers of the show never intended it to last this long.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's a great series but it has run it's course. All good things must come to an end.

There are very few series on TV that I watch. It's basically Lost, Heroes, Burn Notice and Chuck. Heroes has been falling apart for a while and Chuck ended for me when Chuck and Sarah got together. At least Burn Notice is still really good and it's coming back in a couple of weeks.

I need some more good shows to watch. I hope some more air in the fall.

Oh yeah, Archer is great, definitely want more of that.
 
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