"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone here friends with waiters and waitresses?

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Im best friend with a waiter from Denny’s and he’s always stressed out and complaining about the people around him and his environment…..particularly relationships.

He’s a single dad and he’s separated from his partner, but he’s responsible and takes care of Child support. He’s got a bachelors degree in business and do to his criminal activities, he’s stuck with the job he has.

He works side hustles mowing people’s yards and seems to have extra cash left over because he’s always bbqing on his facebook stories.

One thing I’ve noticed about him is he keeps talking about some really sketchy and shady people. I know a guy who told me he used to do drugs with him like cocaine and weed.


Anyone here knows some waiters or waitresses and are friends with them? Or have worked as one in the past. Seems like they can make good money and a great way to have awesome social skills.


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A girl who has helped me out with my business is a waitress I would consider her more of a Great acquaintance than a friend.
She makes really great money at a waitress. However, she overshares on Snapchat,is in her 30s, single mother.
She recently went vegan so she is in amazing shape, a pretty girl but her and her ILK are of the thotianna variety
I check her social media posts once in a blue to see what she is up too
SHe is a sweetheart, great girl but I don't care for the people who she hangs with
 

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He’s got a bachelors degree in business and do to his criminal activities, he’s stuck with the job he has.

He works side hustles mowing people’s yards and seems to have extra cash left over because he’s always bbqing on his facebook stories
His criminal activities are hardly past tense
 

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Anyone here knows some waiters or waitresses and are friends with them? Or have worked as one in the past. Seems like they can make good money and a great way to have awesome social skills.
Many white collar worker males don't have good personal relationships with waiters, waitresses, and other service sector workers.

Many men who work white collar office jobs would like to date waitresses, female bartenders, retail store sales workers, baristas, etc. The problem is that they don't run in the same social circles and it is more difficult for men to meet these types of women. These men are reliant upon hitting on them while they are at work and that's a weaker position.

I started a thread about this topic in July 2020.

 

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My ex was working as a waitress in a co--tail bar, when I met her.
I picked her out, shook her up and turned her around, turned her into someone new. Now five years later on, she's got the world at her feet, and success has been easy for her. But she forgets that it was me who put her where she is now, and that I can put her back down too
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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