"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone here friends with waiters and waitresses?

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Im best friend with a waiter from Denny’s and he’s always stressed out and complaining about the people around him and his environment…..particularly relationships.

He’s a single dad and he’s separated from his partner, but he’s responsible and takes care of Child support. He’s got a bachelors degree in business and do to his criminal activities, he’s stuck with the job he has.

He works side hustles mowing people’s yards and seems to have extra cash left over because he’s always bbqing on his facebook stories.

One thing I’ve noticed about him is he keeps talking about some really sketchy and shady people. I know a guy who told me he used to do drugs with him like cocaine and weed.


Anyone here knows some waiters or waitresses and are friends with them? Or have worked as one in the past. Seems like they can make good money and a great way to have awesome social skills.


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A girl who has helped me out with my business is a waitress I would consider her more of a Great acquaintance than a friend.
She makes really great money at a waitress. However, she overshares on Snapchat,is in her 30s, single mother.
She recently went vegan so she is in amazing shape, a pretty girl but her and her ILK are of the thotianna variety
I check her social media posts once in a blue to see what she is up too
SHe is a sweetheart, great girl but I don't care for the people who she hangs with
 

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He’s got a bachelors degree in business and do to his criminal activities, he’s stuck with the job he has.

He works side hustles mowing people’s yards and seems to have extra cash left over because he’s always bbqing on his facebook stories
His criminal activities are hardly past tense
 

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Anyone here knows some waiters or waitresses and are friends with them? Or have worked as one in the past. Seems like they can make good money and a great way to have awesome social skills.
Many white collar worker males don't have good personal relationships with waiters, waitresses, and other service sector workers.

Many men who work white collar office jobs would like to date waitresses, female bartenders, retail store sales workers, baristas, etc. The problem is that they don't run in the same social circles and it is more difficult for men to meet these types of women. These men are reliant upon hitting on them while they are at work and that's a weaker position.

I started a thread about this topic in July 2020.

 

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My ex was working as a waitress in a co--tail bar, when I met her.
I picked her out, shook her up and turned her around, turned her into someone new. Now five years later on, she's got the world at her feet, and success has been easy for her. But she forgets that it was me who put her where she is now, and that I can put her back down too
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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