"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone here a Third Culture Kid? Or a Third Culture Adult?

michaelhctam

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Third Culture Kids (abbreviated TCKs) refers to someone who [as a child] has spent a significant period of time in one or more culture(s) other than his or her own.

My Passports & Identities:

- Spanish
- Canadian
- British
- American Green Card
- Hong Kong Permanent ID Card.

Have you ever had any problem in relating to people who have not grown up in more than one culture? I mean at school I do have problems relating to people, I don't know if I belong to the Western people- or if I belong to the Chinese people.

So I am having abit of an identidy crisis at the moment.

If you are (or were) a Third Culture Kid, have you ever had any problem growing up? I really wish to meet more TCK's- so I can find some people I can relate to and that can understand me. :eek:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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redspicyflag

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Why are you restricting yourself to one culture?

You're a traveler-a man that has traveled the world

I'm somewhat a "TCK" as you label, being both of filipino and us heritage

I had an identity crisis like this some time ago

I don't restrict myself to one nationality

All I can say is be true to yourself
 

TheHumanist

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I must say the locations profile I found incredible interesting, reflected of the post. "Everyone but nowhere" for the person who feel in too many cultures and "I pleased" for the reply.
 

Falcon

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I've lived in one city all my life. Being multi-cultured is nothing to be ashamed about man, I wish I was in a sense. Actually, it's probably better to be in your position because chances are you haven't been corrupted. Believe me, a lot of people would envy the situation you are in.

My advice is to go away from seeing yourself as part of a group and instead see you and everyone as individuals. We get our rights and our identity as individuals, not as being part of any group (which is what perpetuates stuff like racism).
 
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