Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Anyone have experience with German women?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Why the need to pm. Post it for all to see, shared information benefits all DJ's. The greatest weapon in life is knowledge, and knowledge is power.lamobatsman said:
@op, I dated a half-german. Their respond very well to hyper masculinity, the one I had was pretty funny, cute, decently hot. They look up to their fathers and usually have strong familial, if only paternal bonds. They are looking for someone to substitute for their father figure, someone who'll tell them what to do, etc. But emphasis on this, the key is to embody masculinity, they respond very well to it. I dont recommend them for marriage but only for ****buddy status, someone to enjoy yourself with when you have free time. WHEN YOU SHOW THE SLIGHTLY HINT OF BEING A BETA, and/hand over the power to HER, she will cut you out. or worse. use you. I've seen her do it and she could be a cold-hearted *****. Oh and they admire ambition, strong direction in life. Their culture demands you be masculine, she wont expect less. Phew long post.
edit: also they're pretty fkin tall, idk if its only the one I had and the others I observed or a common trait amongst them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Lol mine had a black fetish. She was my first and made it so incredibly easy that even my terribly inexperienced self couldn't fvck it up. She was also ten years older than me...it was an interesting experience.YAboi said:
Also the black fetish is fairly common. I know quite a few that are into black guys.
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I was married to a German woman and lived in Germany for 3 months before she was became full blown BPD. Then while I was in United Kingdom I had a 6 month relationship with another German woman who lived with me.
I suppose I am in the place to give advice about real German women (from Europe and not Americanized living in United States). I don't like to generalize but here's what I think makes them different than other European and American women I have known:
* As an overall culture, Germans are quite cold exterior wise and not very friendly to non-German speakers. Trying to get on a German woman's good side (if she is TRUE German living in Germany or Europe), you usually need to speak German unless she has exceptional English (and if it sucks the accent is horrible).
* German women are typically more educated and smart/intelligent than other European women I been with. This can also backfire because you have to be on your toe all the time due to their high intelligence (who knows what their 1,000,000 hamsters are strategizing behind your back).
* Germans (women or not) carry the history and sinful memory of a nation in their subconcious. Having been with German women, they often mention how they are still quietly ashamed of their ancestry as Nazi reign in the past. This somehow shows in their culture in the extreme nature - where they appear to be proud and prideful of being Germans, but deep down they are all still suffering from a shameful identity as a nation.
* German women tend to be pretty bland and lack sense of humour over other Europeans. A better term is boring.
* The German women I been with tend to be very tight knitted with their family (mother, father, whatever is left). This can also get in the way of finding their own voice as an adult and hinders relationships.
* Physically German women tend to be quite tall and high cheek boned. My 2nd German GF was 6' tall (I am 6'3"). I have to say that was the best fitting physical height GF I enjoyed. German women also tend to be in good shape compared to the American women but not that much different to other European women.
BIGGEST NEGATIVE - if you are ever curious where the term 'feminazi' comes from, it probably came from Germany. German women are highly masculinized, where the feminist movement started originally in Europe. ALL German women I been with have lacked affection and is quite masculine in their underlying personality even though they may sugarcoat it with sweetness on the surface to lure you in. Don't be fooled. They are dominating and control-freaks, you need to have your game at 100% with them.
Hope that helps.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Somewhat true - but I think the younger generation gets it by now, and shave more than not shave.El Payaso said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No, but they have tits, ass and vagina like anyone. They like wiener schnitzel, bratwurst and beer. They often have big perfect titties and blue eyes and/or blond hair.
They like to be polite, and they are quite friendly imho. If they're not: NEXT.