"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone have crappy hair?

KillingTime

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I dont really know what to do with mine, it looks bad short or long.
It's black and really really thick/puffy (not really curly though, but it's got this poofy cotton candy thing going on)
Right now I just get a number one on the sides and an inch on top every week, pretty lame and generic but it kinda looks somewhat decent for about 3 days or so....
by the 4th day it just looks like crap again

Problem is after a few days that buzz on the sides starts sticking straight out, now with the top is a whole different problem... since it's so puffy I have to use a lot of gel, it looks good until it dries. Once it dries, I dont know if it's b/c my hair is black or what, but it just looks really plasticky and dirty.

So yea this is getting really damn long for a post about hair but I don't know what the hell to do. My second dilemna is im white/hispanic and pretty pale... but I have a lot of "black" features like the wide nose etc.
Ive thought about getting more of a African-American style, like those short little braids Shawn Wayan had but then again I'm not really black

Hell I don't know what to do with it, anyone else have hair like this, what style do you get? One last thing I thought of is to just get a really short scissor cut all around... so that it will be as short as possible but won't stand up like it does when it's buzzed, how do I ask for that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rocko

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sounds like your hair is like mine man, its a burn i know, you can try spikking ur hair with finger-length SCISSOR cut. Seems to be the best for me, grows out kinda nicely. Lol, all you have to do is ask the hair stylest/ barber to cut it with scissors and they will, just make sure to tip cause its more work
 
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