"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone have crappy hair?

KillingTime

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I dont really know what to do with mine, it looks bad short or long.
It's black and really really thick/puffy (not really curly though, but it's got this poofy cotton candy thing going on)
Right now I just get a number one on the sides and an inch on top every week, pretty lame and generic but it kinda looks somewhat decent for about 3 days or so....
by the 4th day it just looks like crap again

Problem is after a few days that buzz on the sides starts sticking straight out, now with the top is a whole different problem... since it's so puffy I have to use a lot of gel, it looks good until it dries. Once it dries, I dont know if it's b/c my hair is black or what, but it just looks really plasticky and dirty.

So yea this is getting really damn long for a post about hair but I don't know what the hell to do. My second dilemna is im white/hispanic and pretty pale... but I have a lot of "black" features like the wide nose etc.
Ive thought about getting more of a African-American style, like those short little braids Shawn Wayan had but then again I'm not really black

Hell I don't know what to do with it, anyone else have hair like this, what style do you get? One last thing I thought of is to just get a really short scissor cut all around... so that it will be as short as possible but won't stand up like it does when it's buzzed, how do I ask for that?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rocko

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sounds like your hair is like mine man, its a burn i know, you can try spikking ur hair with finger-length SCISSOR cut. Seems to be the best for me, grows out kinda nicely. Lol, all you have to do is ask the hair stylest/ barber to cut it with scissors and they will, just make sure to tip cause its more work
 
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