white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Not only in the dating world, but in your professional life too? I was checking into it and find it intriging.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Anyone had luck using NLP?
- Thread starter white sox bill
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It works if you don't cut corners on the concepts.
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
I take it you've been through it?Francisco d'Anconia said:It works if you don't cut corners on the concepts.
Re:
This has been touched upon elsewhere, but I'll revisit it.
NEURO LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING = NLP.
The brain WAS programmed from birth with perceptions, realizations, and understandings of reality, or what is PERCEIVED as reality. But LIFE, is only perceptions. A rich person, or one who makes themselves wealthy, has different perceptions that enable them to create their wealth. A poor person, or one who stays poor or continues to habituate poor habits, has different perceptions that enable them to create their wealth. In an odd way, NLP and other similar programs are like UNDERSTANDING the matrix of the mind.
Guys always ask "How did I become an AFC?" It isn't a becoming of anything. You just adopted AFC programming in your brain. That MIND used an AFC Matrix to perceive reality, that thereby controlled your actions.
Remember....THOUGHT(thinking) > ACTION (doing) > BEING
If you don't FIRST think, then whatever you do is merely RE-action to whatever stimulated you, or whatever EMBEDDED thoughts are in your mind. NOW, if you embed good thoughts and programs, which is what PUA sites, and even this one TEACH, then your RE-actions are the result of UNCONCIOUS COMPETENCE (another NLP phrase, there's 4 levels of competency, and this is the highest). UNCONSCIOUS COMPETENCE is the professional level. It's Tiger Woods. It's Albert Puljos. It's Tom Brady. It's Warren Buffet. Rather than THINK their way ONTO the path that will lead to their success, they are already living it and compounding their results.
ALL of what I've mentioned get's into the mind. NLP acts WITH improvement material, and ALL education material for that mater to understand the computer that these NEW beliefs are installed upon.
Some have a NEGATIVE connotation as a result of Ross Jeffries, or of expecting some outlandish results, but do not fret, those are but a few experiences. In Truth, NLP works, in terms of grasping your mind, and life around you. See, Tony Robbins uses NLP to unwind embedded negative programs, then he seeks to install new, empowering ones. One cannot take to success material of any kind and hope to paint right over the old crap, without first extracting the old crap.
Alot of the PUA material I've reviewed gets into this. First they seek to analyze what you are believing and living. Then they seek to show you they're just false beliefs you've adopted without even thinking about what you think or believe. Then they seek to implant you with new ones.
Many people adopted either empowering beliefs or disempowering beliefs, without thinking, even before they could think. That's childhood. It's your parent's responsibility to teach you to think, and to think in a right minded way that brings happiness and success in life. Since so few humans do actually think, and then even think RIGHT, it's hard to transfer such thinking to the youth of the nation. After that, your mind is YOUR responsibility. And it is today. What goes in, is because you allow it, even if you're not thinking, you're lowering your guard.
But back to the point, if you want to start in different spots, check out Mind Lines, or anything by Richard Bandler. There's also Milton Erickson. Or Introduction to NLP. Tony Robbins is NLP, as well, and both his monstrous volumes are NLP rooted.
A-Unit
This has been touched upon elsewhere, but I'll revisit it.
NEURO LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING = NLP.
The brain WAS programmed from birth with perceptions, realizations, and understandings of reality, or what is PERCEIVED as reality. But LIFE, is only perceptions. A rich person, or one who makes themselves wealthy, has different perceptions that enable them to create their wealth. A poor person, or one who stays poor or continues to habituate poor habits, has different perceptions that enable them to create their wealth. In an odd way, NLP and other similar programs are like UNDERSTANDING the matrix of the mind.
Guys always ask "How did I become an AFC?" It isn't a becoming of anything. You just adopted AFC programming in your brain. That MIND used an AFC Matrix to perceive reality, that thereby controlled your actions.
Remember....THOUGHT(thinking) > ACTION (doing) > BEING
If you don't FIRST think, then whatever you do is merely RE-action to whatever stimulated you, or whatever EMBEDDED thoughts are in your mind. NOW, if you embed good thoughts and programs, which is what PUA sites, and even this one TEACH, then your RE-actions are the result of UNCONCIOUS COMPETENCE (another NLP phrase, there's 4 levels of competency, and this is the highest). UNCONSCIOUS COMPETENCE is the professional level. It's Tiger Woods. It's Albert Puljos. It's Tom Brady. It's Warren Buffet. Rather than THINK their way ONTO the path that will lead to their success, they are already living it and compounding their results.
ALL of what I've mentioned get's into the mind. NLP acts WITH improvement material, and ALL education material for that mater to understand the computer that these NEW beliefs are installed upon.
Some have a NEGATIVE connotation as a result of Ross Jeffries, or of expecting some outlandish results, but do not fret, those are but a few experiences. In Truth, NLP works, in terms of grasping your mind, and life around you. See, Tony Robbins uses NLP to unwind embedded negative programs, then he seeks to install new, empowering ones. One cannot take to success material of any kind and hope to paint right over the old crap, without first extracting the old crap.
Alot of the PUA material I've reviewed gets into this. First they seek to analyze what you are believing and living. Then they seek to show you they're just false beliefs you've adopted without even thinking about what you think or believe. Then they seek to implant you with new ones.
Many people adopted either empowering beliefs or disempowering beliefs, without thinking, even before they could think. That's childhood. It's your parent's responsibility to teach you to think, and to think in a right minded way that brings happiness and success in life. Since so few humans do actually think, and then even think RIGHT, it's hard to transfer such thinking to the youth of the nation. After that, your mind is YOUR responsibility. And it is today. What goes in, is because you allow it, even if you're not thinking, you're lowering your guard.
But back to the point, if you want to start in different spots, check out Mind Lines, or anything by Richard Bandler. There's also Milton Erickson. Or Introduction to NLP. Tony Robbins is NLP, as well, and both his monstrous volumes are NLP rooted.
A-Unit
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
A bit more than just going through it.white sox bill said:I take it you've been through it?
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
I have a chance to get a free intro near Chicago next month. Is it real pricey? I realize this can't be answered by one answer, but in general is is real expensive?Francisco d'Anconia said:A bit more than just going through it.
I'm guessing you feel NLP works best when one practices the key concepts;foundations. What specifically are the key concepts/foundations? Thanks in advance!Francisco d'Anconia said:It works if you don't cut corners on the concepts.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It works best when all of the concepts are studied, not just the predominate ones. Cutting corners and not fully understanding it would make it seem like what many people believe The Secret is all about. Short cuts foster mediocrity at best.john_1234 said:I'm guessing you feel NLP works best when one practices the key concepts;foundations. What specifically are the key concepts/foundations? Thanks in advance!