"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone got any takes on this situation ?

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Scaramouche

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Hi Bingo,
Popping along to an Immigration Lawyer is the go,half the Taxi drivers in Woolongong are Sikhs or Pakistani who used that avenue...Pity is that the the Immigration screening process has been politicised,they get brownie points knocking a Brit!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OP,

I’m surprised you’re considering a desperate measure like this to stay in the country. I think if you were reading your own post as another party you’d be advising against doing this for all the reasons everyone just came up with and rightfully so.

Putting your future in the hands of a mercurial 22 year old chick is just downright stupid. Don’t do that. Also - get out of the “I’m in marry mode” mindset. All you’re going to do is pull the trigger on someone you shouldn’t - which is something you seem to be considering in this very thread.
 
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Barrister said:
All you’re going to do is pull the trigger on someone you shouldn’t -
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Yeah, someone who's not a student at his local pre-k, or a parishioner at the nearest synagogue or mosque. Don't empty an entire clip into the chest(s) of anyone who's not widely viewed as either undesirable or, at the very least, annoying
 
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