"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone got any takes on this situation ?

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Hi Bingo,
Popping along to an Immigration Lawyer is the go,half the Taxi drivers in Woolongong are Sikhs or Pakistani who used that avenue...Pity is that the the Immigration screening process has been politicised,they get brownie points knocking a Brit!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OP,

I’m surprised you’re considering a desperate measure like this to stay in the country. I think if you were reading your own post as another party you’d be advising against doing this for all the reasons everyone just came up with and rightfully so.

Putting your future in the hands of a mercurial 22 year old chick is just downright stupid. Don’t do that. Also - get out of the “I’m in marry mode” mindset. All you’re going to do is pull the trigger on someone you shouldn’t - which is something you seem to be considering in this very thread.
 
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Barrister said:
All you’re going to do is pull the trigger on someone you shouldn’t -
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Yeah, someone who's not a student at his local pre-k, or a parishioner at the nearest synagogue or mosque. Don't empty an entire clip into the chest(s) of anyone who's not widely viewed as either undesirable or, at the very least, annoying
 
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