"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone got any takes on this situation ?

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Scaramouche

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Hi Bingo,
Popping along to an Immigration Lawyer is the go,half the Taxi drivers in Woolongong are Sikhs or Pakistani who used that avenue...Pity is that the the Immigration screening process has been politicised,they get brownie points knocking a Brit!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OP,

I’m surprised you’re considering a desperate measure like this to stay in the country. I think if you were reading your own post as another party you’d be advising against doing this for all the reasons everyone just came up with and rightfully so.

Putting your future in the hands of a mercurial 22 year old chick is just downright stupid. Don’t do that. Also - get out of the “I’m in marry mode” mindset. All you’re going to do is pull the trigger on someone you shouldn’t - which is something you seem to be considering in this very thread.
 
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BaronOfHair

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Barrister said:
All you’re going to do is pull the trigger on someone you shouldn’t -
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Yeah, someone who's not a student at his local pre-k, or a parishioner at the nearest synagogue or mosque. Don't empty an entire clip into the chest(s) of anyone who's not widely viewed as either undesirable or, at the very least, annoying
 
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