"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi Fellow DJ's,

I am starting to feel oneitis creeping in with my current plate. I know what needs to be done (get more plates). This plate knows what I'm like and has asked me to tell her if I bang other girls coz "it's a sexual health thing"

Would you tell her and why/why not?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do what (or who) makes you happy. If she makes you happy by herself, then she is all you need. Part of the idea of plates is that it makes women treat you well, because they know you have options. If you commit to her, she still treats you well, and you're still happy, then there is nothing wrong with having just one plate.
 

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no offense to you, kind sir, but I believe that's incorrect. Without other options the AFC will be back I can feel it
 

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the AFC will be back I can feel it

And then you won't be happy, and neither will she.

You are the one in control of your mind, no one else, and especially not any woman.
 
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