"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Juan Day

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Hi Fellow DJ's,

I am starting to feel oneitis creeping in with my current plate. I know what needs to be done (get more plates). This plate knows what I'm like and has asked me to tell her if I bang other girls coz "it's a sexual health thing"

Would you tell her and why/why not?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do what (or who) makes you happy. If she makes you happy by herself, then she is all you need. Part of the idea of plates is that it makes women treat you well, because they know you have options. If you commit to her, she still treats you well, and you're still happy, then there is nothing wrong with having just one plate.
 

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no offense to you, kind sir, but I believe that's incorrect. Without other options the AFC will be back I can feel it
 

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the AFC will be back I can feel it

And then you won't be happy, and neither will she.

You are the one in control of your mind, no one else, and especially not any woman.
 
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