"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi Fellow DJ's,

I am starting to feel oneitis creeping in with my current plate. I know what needs to be done (get more plates). This plate knows what I'm like and has asked me to tell her if I bang other girls coz "it's a sexual health thing"

Would you tell her and why/why not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do what (or who) makes you happy. If she makes you happy by herself, then she is all you need. Part of the idea of plates is that it makes women treat you well, because they know you have options. If you commit to her, she still treats you well, and you're still happy, then there is nothing wrong with having just one plate.
 
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no offense to you, kind sir, but I believe that's incorrect. Without other options the AFC will be back I can feel it
 
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the AFC will be back I can feel it

And then you won't be happy, and neither will she.

You are the one in control of your mind, no one else, and especially not any woman.
 
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