"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone getting bored b*nging same woman?

white sox bill

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Hey Guys after a 2 yr break, decided to come back and see some old friends and meet new ones. In the last 2 yrs I have met and am dating a woman who is every mans dream, sexually anyway. Previously I have went for the younger 30-40 yr olds who flaked on me almost every time. The one I have now is in her early 50's...she is tall and slender...she has long brown hair w/longer legs. Think of ANY porn movie you may have seen. My GF will do ANYTHING a porn actress will(except multiple guys, but she has even mentioned a threesome w/her GF and I).

So your thinking WTF is Bill posting here? He gets sex anytime. Well, after 2 yrs I'm getting bored. I guess maybe its the Ho in me. I own a gym and work w/females on a personal basis. So I have many opportunities. But seems like mostly w/bored married women who are middle age. I know there is a wide opinions on sexing a married women. But some of them look damn good and they flirt w/me constantly. But that's another topic for another thread.

How many others here are bored in your relationship or marriage? How do you deal w/it? Do you dare cross that line and cheat? My GF is soooo cool, she has very few issues, all my friends think I'm totally nuts for having wandering eyes when I have full access to any of this girls body.


Or could be I'm just a natural born male slut and will always be looking. Any constructive feedback would be helpful and appreciated. (Or do I just need to grow up??) :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sandow

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Every girl gets boring at one point, even if you had carmen electra as your gf, she would get boring too.

Completely normal, 2 million years of evolution hasn't programmed us to be reproductive with just one girl. If it did, then we wouldn't be here today. All you're doing is following your instincts. You're supposed to bang as many girls as you can, it's natures way and guarantees the survival of our species.
 

speed dawg

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Who was that saying about, I think it was Kathy Ireland, that first started the whole "somewhere there is somebody that is sick of fvcking her"?

Every woman gets boring eventually.

Go the the search feature and type in 'Desire' and 'Rollo Tomassi'.
 

STR8UP

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You have testosterone. You crave variety. You can sit there and be unhappy or you can do something about it.

Most women will overlook discrete infidelity, as long as your value is high enough.
 

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Agreed.

The only rule a man should consider regarding cheating is to never cheat down, only up. When we cheat down and get caught, we end up thinking about opportunity cost and diminishing returns.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Zunder

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Well, women are pretty fvcking boring. Do I really want to go shopping, watch Desperate Houseb1tches, or talk about manicures?

As much as western women have gone awol on traditional feminity, I don't think I could handle an asian or subcontinent women who does everything for you, and never says boo, ever. Talking LTR here.

Don't want continuous borefest, nor a continuous sh!test.

Guess I want the best of both worlds. And why the fvck not!? Aim high.

And in the meantime, swoon as much poon as you can.
 

C-quenced

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I find a lot of you especially a lot of the naturals to be ungrateful bastards. I don't get **** and now I read complaints about how boring certain kinds of ***** gets. If I ever happen to be somewhat successful I'll just be taking someone's leftovers *sick*
 

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I find a lot of you especially a lot of the naturals to be ungrateful bastards. I don't get **** and now I read complaints about how boring certain kinds of ***** gets. If I ever happen to be somewhat successful I'll just be taking someone's leftovers *sick*
Welocme to the real world buddy.

If you ate nothing but Filet Mignon - you'd be tired of it after 3 months.

The mistake you make is thinking you'd be somehow different than the Bazillion other men out there - your not.
 

white sox bill

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Bible_Belt said:
she has even mentioned a threesome w/her GF and I


There you go. That's not boring.
Yea I agree...her fantasy is a 69 with her friend, my GF on top and me in the back door :up:

Then again she frequently performs oral sex on a dildo when I'm sc#ewing her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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