"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone getting bored b*nging same woman?

white sox bill

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Hey Guys after a 2 yr break, decided to come back and see some old friends and meet new ones. In the last 2 yrs I have met and am dating a woman who is every mans dream, sexually anyway. Previously I have went for the younger 30-40 yr olds who flaked on me almost every time. The one I have now is in her early 50's...she is tall and slender...she has long brown hair w/longer legs. Think of ANY porn movie you may have seen. My GF will do ANYTHING a porn actress will(except multiple guys, but she has even mentioned a threesome w/her GF and I).

So your thinking WTF is Bill posting here? He gets sex anytime. Well, after 2 yrs I'm getting bored. I guess maybe its the Ho in me. I own a gym and work w/females on a personal basis. So I have many opportunities. But seems like mostly w/bored married women who are middle age. I know there is a wide opinions on sexing a married women. But some of them look damn good and they flirt w/me constantly. But that's another topic for another thread.

How many others here are bored in your relationship or marriage? How do you deal w/it? Do you dare cross that line and cheat? My GF is soooo cool, she has very few issues, all my friends think I'm totally nuts for having wandering eyes when I have full access to any of this girls body.


Or could be I'm just a natural born male slut and will always be looking. Any constructive feedback would be helpful and appreciated. (Or do I just need to grow up??) :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sandow

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Every girl gets boring at one point, even if you had carmen electra as your gf, she would get boring too.

Completely normal, 2 million years of evolution hasn't programmed us to be reproductive with just one girl. If it did, then we wouldn't be here today. All you're doing is following your instincts. You're supposed to bang as many girls as you can, it's natures way and guarantees the survival of our species.
 

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Who was that saying about, I think it was Kathy Ireland, that first started the whole "somewhere there is somebody that is sick of fvcking her"?

Every woman gets boring eventually.

Go the the search feature and type in 'Desire' and 'Rollo Tomassi'.
 

STR8UP

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You have testosterone. You crave variety. You can sit there and be unhappy or you can do something about it.

Most women will overlook discrete infidelity, as long as your value is high enough.
 

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Agreed.

The only rule a man should consider regarding cheating is to never cheat down, only up. When we cheat down and get caught, we end up thinking about opportunity cost and diminishing returns.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, women are pretty fvcking boring. Do I really want to go shopping, watch Desperate Houseb1tches, or talk about manicures?

As much as western women have gone awol on traditional feminity, I don't think I could handle an asian or subcontinent women who does everything for you, and never says boo, ever. Talking LTR here.

Don't want continuous borefest, nor a continuous sh!test.

Guess I want the best of both worlds. And why the fvck not!? Aim high.

And in the meantime, swoon as much poon as you can.
 

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I find a lot of you especially a lot of the naturals to be ungrateful bastards. I don't get **** and now I read complaints about how boring certain kinds of ***** gets. If I ever happen to be somewhat successful I'll just be taking someone's leftovers *sick*
 

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I find a lot of you especially a lot of the naturals to be ungrateful bastards. I don't get **** and now I read complaints about how boring certain kinds of ***** gets. If I ever happen to be somewhat successful I'll just be taking someone's leftovers *sick*
Welocme to the real world buddy.

If you ate nothing but Filet Mignon - you'd be tired of it after 3 months.

The mistake you make is thinking you'd be somehow different than the Bazillion other men out there - your not.
 

white sox bill

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Bible_Belt said:
she has even mentioned a threesome w/her GF and I


There you go. That's not boring.
Yea I agree...her fantasy is a 69 with her friend, my GF on top and me in the back door :up:

Then again she frequently performs oral sex on a dildo when I'm sc#ewing her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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